Abuse Quotes | Sayings on Overcoming Trauma
Abuse can leave deep scars that are both visible and invisible. Whether it’s emotional, mental, or physical abuse, the impact it has on an individual can be devastating. These quotes offer words of encouragement, empowerment, and the wisdom to help others overcome trauma and reclaim their lives.
Quotes About Emotional Abuse
- There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds.
- The scars you can’t see are the hardest to heal. – Astrid Alauda
- Poisonous relationships can alter our perception. You can spend many years thinking you’re worthless… but you’re not worthless, you’re unappreciated.
- Emotional abuse is the leading reason for suicide victims.
- Bruises heal, but you don’t forget words and emotions, how an abuser makes you feel about yourself.
- Verbal abuse is still abuse. It’s abuse in the form of words. Don’t assume that a few hurtful words won’t cost them their life. Words hurt.
- Abuse is not just physical, it’s emotional and mental too. And it’s just as damaging.
- The scars from mental cruelty can be as deep and long-lasting as wounds from punches or slaps but are often not as obvious.
- Psychological invalidation is one of the most lethal forms of emotional abuse. It kills confidence, creativity, and individuality.
- Abuse is not a one-time event, it’s a pattern of behavior. Breaking the pattern starts with recognizing it.
- It is not the bruises on the body that hurt. It is the wounds of the heart and the scars on the mind. – Aisha Mirza
- Trust is only a five-letter word but it can be misused in so many different ways.
- Not all wounds are visible.
- You never fully recover from the pain; you learn how to cope with it. – Natasha Preston
- Words scar more than you think.
- The worst wounds are those inflicted by words.
- Emotional abuse is like a slow poison, it may not kill you instantly, but it destroys you over time.
- Abuse is what happens when love turns toxic.
- He controlled me with words, which cut deeper than any knife.
Overcoming Abuse and Healing
- You survived the abuse. You’re going to survive the recovery.
- Sometimes we survive by forgetting.
- Abuse changes your life. Fight back and change the life of your abusers by breaking your silence on abuse! – Patty Rase Hopson
- Never forget that walking away from something unhealthy is brave, even if you stumble a little on your way out the door.
- When you finally escape the hold your abuser has on your mind, you get a whole new outlook on life. There’s an overwhelming sense of FREEDOM you get while finding yourself once again.
- At any given moment, you have the power to say, “This is not how the story is going to end.”
- You’re in a relationship to be happy, to smile, to laugh, and to make good memories. Not to be constantly upset, to feel hurt, and to cry.
- If I treat you the way you treated me, then you would hate me.
- Stop telling yourself you can fix him. He’s been this way for a long, long time, and he doesn’t intend to change. Save yourself instead, get out while there’s still time.
- When someone isn’t treating you right, no matter how much you love them, you’ve got to love yourself more and walk away.
- Walking away from something that is hurting you isn’t a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of strength.
- Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives. – Akshay Dubey
- Don’t be afraid to start over. This time, you’re not starting from scratch, you’re starting from experience.
- Leaving the past behind is hard, but holding onto it is harder.
- Taking the step to leave an abusive relationship is the most courageous thing you will ever do.
- You may have to fight a battle more than once to win it. – Margaret Thatcher
- Healing takes time, but it happens if you allow yourself to move forward.
- It’s not about finding peace after leaving; it’s about creating it.
- Never look back unless you are planning to go that way. – Henry David Thoreau
Recognizing and Standing Against Abuse
- Abuse is not acceptable in any form, and it’s not something anyone should ever have to endure.
- Do not sit back and take it. Pack your things and leave.
- Abuse is not just a physical action, it’s a violation of trust and respect.
- Abuse is a crime, not a secret.
- No one deserves to be treated like trash, especially not by the person you love.
- A healthy relationship doesn’t drag you down. It inspires you to be better.
- If he makes you lose your family, lose your friends, lose your confidence, lose your self-esteem, or lose your happiness, then you need to lose him.
- It’s hard to look for the light when you’re lost in darkness.
- Don’t put up with disrespect just to keep them in your life.
- Hitting a woman doesn’t make you a man with control, it makes you a coward scared of a woman putting you in your place.
- Speak up. Silence is the biggest enabler of abuse.
- It’s not your fault. No one deserves to be mistreated.
- Ignoring abuse is like watering a weed; it only grows.
- Abuse thrives in silence, but it loses its power when it’s exposed.
- The cycle of abuse will continue until someone is brave enough to break it.
- Respect yourself enough to know you deserve better.
- If they disrespect you once, they’ll do it again.
- Abuse is a choice, not an accident.
- When you tolerate abuse, you teach the abuser it’s okay to continue.
- It takes courage to stand up to your abuser, but it takes even more courage to walk away.
Quotes on the Impact of Abuse
- Childhood should be carefree, playing in the sun; not living a nightmare in the darkness of the soul. – Dave Pelzer
- The greater the power, the more dangerous the abuse. – Edmund Burke
- There are wounds that never show on the body that are deeper and more hurtful than anything that bleeds.
- Emotional abuse is the silent marriage killer.
- People can be cruel, and they will be. People can hurt you, break your heart, and they will. But only you can let them keep hurting you.
- When I was a child, I was afraid of ghosts. As I grew up, I realized people are more scary.
- The scars from mental cruelty can be as deep and long-lasting as wounds from punches or slaps.
- Most people get treated the way they allow themselves to be treated. Respect yourself enough to not put up with being mistreated.
- No one has the right to abuse or mistreat another person.
- Verbal abuse is still abuse; it’s just harder to see.
- The damage of abuse lasts longer than the abuser ever imagined.
- One small act of cruelty can create a lifetime of scars.
- It’s hard to rebuild yourself when you’ve been torn apart.
- The bruises will fade, but the emotional scars last a lifetime.
- What you allowed once, will happen again.
- The abuser may forget the cruelty, but the victim will never forget the pain.
- Sometimes the deepest wounds are the ones no one can see.
- Scars remind us of our pain, but they also remind us of our strength.
- Abuse is not something you ‘get over’ – it’s something you survive.
- Even when the bruises fade, the memory of the abuse remains.
Breaking Free from Abusive Relationships
- When someone isn’t treating you right, no matter how much you love them, you’ve got to love yourself more and walk from an abusive relationship is the most courageous thing you can do.
- It’s better to break your own heart by leaving an abusive relationship than to let someone break your heart every day.
- Leaving an abusive situation is not giving up. It’s refusing to allow someone to steal your happiness.
- It takes strength to recognize the need to leave and even more to actually walk away.
- You can’t change them, but you can change how much power they have over your life by walking away.
- The day you leave is the day you regain your freedom and power.
- Breaking free from the chains of abuse is the first step toward healing.
- Choosing to walk away from abuse is not a sign of weakness but of self-respect.
- Life is too short to spend it in a toxic relationship.
- The journey of healing starts with saying goodbye to what’s hurting you.
- Leaving an abuser doesn’t mean you lost the battle; it means you won your freedom.
- The hardest step in recovery is walking out of the door.
- Freedom begins the moment you stop letting someone else control your life.
- Abuse isn’t love. It’s a prison, and you hold the key to escape.
- It’s never too late to start over, to leave, to walk away from someone who’s hurting you.
- Every step away from abuse is a step toward your true self.
The journey to overcoming abuse is challenging, but it is possible. These quotes aim to offer support and insight for those experiencing or recovering from abuse. The scars may remain, but healing and freedom can be achieved by standing up, speaking out, and reclaiming your power.